From The Director
August 2006

In Bakersfield , the end of summer means temperatures climb into the mid-nineties and it's time for “Back to School.” Academic success is a result both of what happens at home as well as in the classroom. As parents, what can we do to enhance our children's triumphs?

•  Regularly have dinner together, at the table: no TV, no “grilling,” just conversation. Share your day, ask questions, and tell stories. “What was your favorite part of the day?”

•  Make expressions of love and affection happen every day. If your teen can't tolerate hugs and kisses, tussle their hair or twist a few strands; pat their shoulder or touch their arm.

•  Catch them being good at least once a day. And be sure and let them know it.

•  Have family meetings. Assign chores, discuss and solve family issues, and plan activities together.

•  Create a sense of calm and routine. Have regular meal, bed, bath and story times. From an early age, children need chores. They learn a skill and feel like an active member of the family.

When children feel safe and treasured at home, they will surely have a head start at school.

By Karen Cooley,
Executive Director

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